I heard on television that Monday was International Forgiveness Day. I have never heard of such a day. They didn't mention who sponsored the day, or crowned it as official. I suppose I could look it up on the internet, but that isn't really the point. What struck me was how useful such a day would be if it were used as such. Imagine a day when old wrongs were released, old grudges dropped.
Most thoughtful people agree that holding a grudge, maintaining resentment, and festering anger hurts the "holder" far more than the person who is resented. But it is often so so hard to truly release pent up anger or pain that has been carefully guarded, sometimes even fed.
What a great model for our children and our world if we could learn. What a wonderful opportunity to have a day each year to talk about forgiveness, to practice forgiveness, and maybe actually learn how so that we can reap the rewards of anger and pain with peace and calm and healing.
I am a lifelong educator, writer and author, a foster, bio, and adoptive parent, happy mom of five daughters, Grandma to six, Nana to four, and church and theater musician. Oh yes, and all-round optimistic, crazy lady.